Why do black men feel that them dissing, dismissing, and dehumanizing black women is not black women's concern? I feel that having "a preference " is racist. I feel that black men turning their noses at black women for the common stereotypes of being "loud" and "ghetto" are demeaning. I feel that black men venturing to "exotic" women that could care less about protecting black lives is ignorant. How is this not the black woman's problem?